WHY YOU WILL NEVER FIND THE ONE
The modern society is modelled by this western way of thinking (read religious and political correctness) that uses over flogged, old words like liberalism, gender bias, gender equality, feminism, internalized misogyny among others to control men.
They want you to sink into the belief that as a man that wants a relationship with a woman, you have to be the one chasing and idolizing her. Make her your totem pole that you wake up to in the morning and wipe her feet last before you go to bed. So much for the equaling of the gender.
You see, these are the sorta behaviours that breed thinking's like "She's the One and Only" , Ideal soulmate, and other variations. But as a man, ask yourself within you, were you created to have a "One and Only" woman? Everyman knows the more, the merrier. Your grandfathers and their fathers before them had as much women as they could lay their hands on. Why are you desecrating the legacy of your lineage?
These whole westernization hocus-pocus are indications of a socially-induced disease called Onenities as explained by the Red Pill Maestro, Rollo Tomassi in one of his books, The Rational Male.
Onenities is a situation we all are quite familiar with to a large extent. An unhealthy romantic obsession with a single person that is usually accompanied with in reciprocated affections from the other person and an unrealistic idolization of said person.
Onenities is is disease. A paralysis. Something that makes you see what is not and vegetate yourself on that mirage.
You may think you have found a perfect person. The One. Let me burst your bubble, there is no The One. They don't exist.
Now, nothing I have said earlier is to demean a gender or create problems where there is none, but ask yourself objectively, have you ever seen perfection in the true sense in one person? Looking for that is going on a thankless arrant
If ever there will be a The One, it should be you. Yeah, cos why tf not?
I've said it with my chest and turned my back, if you've got something to say, my arse is listening.
I've said
They want you to sink into the belief that as a man that wants a relationship with a woman, you have to be the one chasing and idolizing her. Make her your totem pole that you wake up to in the morning and wipe her feet last before you go to bed. So much for the equaling of the gender.
You see, these are the sorta behaviours that breed thinking's like "She's the One and Only" , Ideal soulmate, and other variations. But as a man, ask yourself within you, were you created to have a "One and Only" woman? Everyman knows the more, the merrier. Your grandfathers and their fathers before them had as much women as they could lay their hands on. Why are you desecrating the legacy of your lineage?
These whole westernization hocus-pocus are indications of a socially-induced disease called Onenities as explained by the Red Pill Maestro, Rollo Tomassi in one of his books, The Rational Male.
Onenities is a situation we all are quite familiar with to a large extent. An unhealthy romantic obsession with a single person that is usually accompanied with in reciprocated affections from the other person and an unrealistic idolization of said person.
Onenities is is disease. A paralysis. Something that makes you see what is not and vegetate yourself on that mirage.
You may think you have found a perfect person. The One. Let me burst your bubble, there is no The One. They don't exist.
Now, nothing I have said earlier is to demean a gender or create problems where there is none, but ask yourself objectively, have you ever seen perfection in the true sense in one person? Looking for that is going on a thankless arrant
If ever there will be a The One, it should be you. Yeah, cos why tf not?
I've said it with my chest and turned my back, if you've got something to say, my arse is listening.
I've said
To every man his opinion...
ReplyDeleteWonderful piece, by the way
RT aggressively!
DeleteLord Hendrxx always spitting
ReplyDeleteThere's a reason why the westernized world and countries are way better than ours. It is attributable to their way of thinking, one which fortunately doesn't go along these lines.
ReplyDeleteWhat you are essentially saying now is because you can't find the perfect woman, you should marry say 4 quarterly perfect women? Such savage mentality! If we're going by this "no one is perfect" logic, it is imperative to point out the fact that you yourself aren't perfect (at least to everyone else). Now, shouldn't those 4 women marry additional 3 men each to balance up the equation?
While I don't know about onenities, I know this much - love can be mutual between 2 persons!
Hey, Mr Arse reading this, kindly tell your owner that a chest has dropped his 2 cents on his piece.
he never said you should be looking for perfection upandan...it's just like girls looking for Mr right of which there is none
DeleteI would have said something smart.. but your arse has no ears
ReplyDelete😂😂 this cracked me up mehnn
ReplyDeleteI agree though But don't you feel beautiful ladies are entitled to more than one husband
ReplyDeleteWhy not
Because beautiful ladies most times have a flock of handsome men asking her out
Don't you think its proper to satisfy them all. Marry the best 3
Something like that
I do not subscribe to this at all. Truly , there may not be such a thing as the perfect person. I believe you can always find someone whose deficiencies you can tolerate and vice versa.
ReplyDeleteNothing apter than this yet. If perfection doesn’t exist, this piece is almost near perfection.
ReplyDeleteLol. I lack words RN... But this, my friend, is a beautiful piece!
ReplyDeleteNice piece well said with your chest. Men (humans) are entitled to their opinions after all.
ReplyDeleteIs "the one" a perfect man? Of course not, his inadequacies are just perfect enough to love and live with.